Marc Chernoff

Don’t settle for the default settings in life.

Don’t wait on others to choose you. Choose yourself today!

Their experiences are a reminder that even when harsh circumstances threaten to bring us down to the lowest of lows, we can keep our minds focused on the positive and our hearts open, and continue to put one foot in front of the other, to recover the pieces, rebuild, and fight back with more strength and determination than we ever imagined possible.

Don’t lower your standards, but do remind yourself that removing your expectations of others—especially those who are being difficult—is the best way to avoid being disappointed by them.

Remember, there’s always something to be negative about—and something to be grateful for. The choice is ours.

Then focus, carefully, on what you’re truly feeling. Don’t numb yourself with distractions or expectations, but instead bring how you feel further into your awareness.

Turn to the moment fully and welcome it. Smile, and give what you feel your full, thoughtful attention

Make yourself the number one priority of this moment.

The truth is, you won’t always be a priority to others, and that’s why you need to be a priority to yourself.

Don’t let your expectations of how everything “should be” blind you to the beauty of the life you’re living. Have faith. Trust the journey.