John Kim

yes, you can want a partner, but life doesn’t have to stop be

because you don’t have one

Asking myself Where am I going? before asking myself Who is going with me?

Your curiosity leading you to explore, learn, grow, and expand. When you actually build your own life, a life that is honest to you and stands on its own, the fear of being alone starts to fade.

That’s the truth, and if you don’t start with truth, you’re really not starting

We attach ourselves to others, and to their opinions of us, because we don’t have a strong sense of self.

We continue to push through, to chase things that are not honest to us, falling into the same patterns that create the same experiences and cement the same beliefs.

We move forward instead of inward

We continue to drift further from ourselves, and the more we disconnect from ourselves, the more we crave connecting with someone else.

Or we think we can fix because fixing things is how we find value in ourselves.