How to shape your kids better

In some families, parents engage in behaviour that violates the norms and interests of society. Children in such families simply observe and imitate the undesirable behaviour and attitudes of their parents. They may also acquire negative behavioural traits, like dishonesty, deceit, etc.

Some researchers have suggested there are four different types of stutter: emotional, nervous, respiratory and habitual.

Causes
This is a symptom of an emotional upheaval and a signal of a disturbed parent-child relationship. Anger spasm is commonly observed among children of over-solicitous parents. Experts have found that the mothers of such children are overindulgent, overprotective, over-demanding, rejecting or autocratic. It is also said that parental attitudes are the results rather than the causes.

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Emotional problems in children do reflect through their misbehaviour like fighting, lying, stealing, destroying property or breaking rules.

The parents always tell the child that he could do even better if he works harder. But no matter how hard he tries, he seems to fail in the eyes of his parents and, ultimately, in his own eyes. This results in painful frustration and self-devaluation. As the child is unable to live up to his parents’ high expectations, his efforts seldom get parental approval and appreciation. This tends to discourage the child from making more efforts. The child eventually feels -1 can’t do it anyway, so why try?